Susan,
I wrote several months ago regarding an issue my fiancee and I were having. We have very many problems whenever trying to be intimate together. I remember when I wrote you before we were having extreme difficulty lining up and fitting me inside so we could make love. It is still a problem and we haven't had the opportunity to try your suggestion of attempting doggie style. Neither of us are sure this will work for us because we lack balance due to the fact that we both have cerebral palsy and cannot balance on our knees.
The new problem we are facing is when I give her oral sex she says it feels very good that she gets to a point that she can't catch her breath and has me stop. She says she feels like she will orgasm but the sensations frighten her and she feels like she can't breathe. I can't help but wonder if I'm doing something wrong. It gets very frustrating sometimes to be nearly 27 years old and have an extreme lack of sexual experience. I want to be able to make love and please the love of my life. Any further insights or advice you may be able to give to help me please my bride to be will be appreciated ever so much.