My husband is 50 years old and I am thirty-six. Our sex life has been going down hill quickly for the last few years and now is non existant. He has tried Viagra and Levitra but says they give him a head ache. PLus, they do not work at all. He went to the doctor about 9 months ago and got put on hormone replacement and everything turned around. He was attentive and interested and his sex drive went through the roof. We went from nothing to three or four times a week, sometimes multiple times in a day. Then all of a sudden after about three months that stoppped completely. He said the shots were not working anymore but I found out from our insurance papers that he stopped taking the shots. He will not go back to the doctor. He says he is still trying the pills but they still do not work. We are back to completely no sex and absolutely no interest at all. If I try to initiate anything he ignores me and walks off. He will not let me perform oral or touch him sexually anymore. He will not go to counciling. I do not know what to do anymore. Any advice anyone can give me would be greatly appreciated.